Why Are Nigerians Still Shy About Buying Condoms?

A lot of young Nigerians, both guys and gals, feel very uneasy about stepping into a pharmacy to grab condoms or contraceptives. Why is that?

If you’re sexually active, why not buy condoms confidently?

 

The truth is, once you do, you might get hit with judgmental looks and unspoken assumptions. In many people’s eyes, being unmarried and sexually active is a big no-no, especially when it comes to openly buying condoms. This hesitation and discomfort around purchasing condoms come from a mix of factors deeply embedded in Nigerian culture. Even though condoms are essential for preventing unwanted pregnancies and STIs, there are still several hurdles that make it tough for people to access them without shame. Here are some of the main reasons why many Nigerians still feel shy about buying condoms.

Religion

Religion significantly influences societal norms and values in Nigeria. Many religious teachings frown upon premarital sex and advocate for abstinence as the only acceptable birth control method. This religious backdrop often leads to a negative view of condoms, linking them to promiscuity and immoral behavior. For those who strictly follow these beliefs, buying a condom can feel like a betrayal of their faith.

Judgment

On top of religious beliefs, there’s a strong fear of being judged. The disapproving looks from pharmacists, the quiet whispers, and the feeling of being labeled as sexually loose are real worries for many young folks. In a culture that places a high value on virginity and sexual purity, especially for women, purchasing a condom can seem like a public confession of sexual activity, attracting unwanted attention and criticism. This fear of social stigma can be a huge barrier, even for those who know the importance of safe sex.

Gender Bias

The stigma around buying condoms often hits women harder. While guys might face some judgment, women are usually seen as more “immoral” or “loose” for making that purchase.

Purchasing condoms is a sensible choice that serves as protection against STIs and unintended pregnancies. It’s time to end the stigma and normalize safe sex. How was your condom purchase experience in Nigeria? Do you feel totally unconcerned or judged?