Lady Reveals She Can’t Date a Guy That Earns N50K, Dating for Survival Not Love

In a bold revelation that has sparked debate across social media, a Nigerian lady shared her views on dating and financial expectations, stating that she would never date a man earning N50,000 or less.
According to her, she refuses to repeat the same mistakes she believes her mother made — marrying purely for love without considering financial stability.
“I don’t want to make the same mistake my mother made and marry for love,” she explained. “Me, I am dating for survival.”
Her statement has ignited discussions online, with many debating whether dating for financial security is practical or morally questionable.
Some argue that financial compatibility is essential for a healthy relationship, while others feel love should be the primary factor in choosing a partner.
The lady’s revelation reflects a growing trend among young Nigerians who are increasingly prioritizing financial stability and security in relationships, especially in a country where economic challenges are prevalent.
As conversations continue to heat up on social media, one thing is clear — her stance has struck a chord, with both supporters and critics weighing in on whether dating for survival is a wise choice or a controversial approach to relationships.


